Adlai Stevenson III (1930 – 2021) entered the 1982 race for Illinois governor just as I had become unemployed. My only memory of that forsaken job, like all the others, is my shameful obsequiousness to the forgettable male boss.
A journalist friend, Paul Galloway (1934-2009) interceded on my behalf to the Stevenson campaign for a volunteer position. Yes, that was necessary. And still. The sublime expression, “We don’t want nobody nobody sent,” originated in a Chicago ward campaign office. Campaigns still scrutinize volunteers with more than an eye roll. Because of my juice through the local newspaper, people were cautious about what was said around me.
I floundered around the office of Adlai Stevenson’s wife, Nancy, who was usually out campaigning. One day, I had the great fortune to be tagged to drive her to Oak Park for an event. That fluke set off a campaign-long assignment as Nancy’s driver.
Nancy and I regularly stepped into community rooms where older adults were having lunch through the federal Meals on Wheels program. Older women would clasp Nancy’s wrist, pull her ear close to their lips and whisper messages for her to take back to her husband. The Meals on Wheels crowd assumed Adlai III was his father, Adlai II, the governor when most of them were young. Nancy, who had a gentle and keen understanding of aging, let most of them hold this holy untruth. She displayed genuine kindness in her friendly interactions with old people who were in obvious cognitive decline. This helped me admit my own subconscious bias toward the aging. My ageism has changed overtime, especially now that I’m old and experience age discrimination against myself and my friends.
Meals on Wheels is funded through the Older Americans Act Nutrition Program which was permanently authorized by Congress in 1972. The purpose is three-fold: 1) reduce hunger, food insecurity, and malnutrition; 2) promote socialization; 3) promote health and well-being by preventing health-related diseases. The Program is available to adults age 60 years and older. Priority is given to low-income individuals, racial or ethnic minorities, rural communities, those with limited English proficiency, and/or those at risk of institutionalization.
One of our campaign stops was a community space in the neighborhood of Hegewich. It is located on the far south side of Chicago, known as the perfect workingman’s neighborhood. When Chicago’s steel mills shut down in the 1980s, the Polish immigrants who’d settled in Hegewich lost their jobs. They also lost their pensions. People survived on government subsistence and odd jobs.
As Nancy began her round of shaking hands, bobbing up and down to lean over to hear the messages of the elderly, she announced, “You know, my husband, Ad, voted for Meals-on-Wheels when he was a senator in Washington.”
Before she could get out another word, a large woman in the corner who looked like a George Booth cartoon yelled:
“Yeah? Well, he oughta be here now for the corned beef! ‘Cause it stinks!”
“Well, I’ll be sure to tell Adlai!” Nancy shouted back.
Funding runs out on December 31, 2024 for the Older Americans Act and the Meals on Wheels Program. If Congress doesn’t vote to reauthorize the Act, the Nutrition Program will be at the mercy of Elon Musk and Vivek Ramaswamy’s Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE). And they have vowed to eliminate all programs that have not been reauthorized by Congress.
My guess is neither of them have come to terms with ageism.

My sister, recently retired, volunteered for Meals on Wheels this year. She said a significant amount of food went uneaten. One reason was the person needed a visit more than food, another was people stated they didn’t like the food.
Food preferences is one reason they gave the migrants funds versus direct food purchases. A lot of the food ended up in the garbage. We need more creative thinking for the problems we are attempting to solve. When Meals on Wheels put pressure on my sister to fundraise – she quit. She was willing to drive to people’s homes but had no intention of raising money too.
During Covid AARP was providing phone calls for older people who were isolated. This might be a better solution than sustaining a program that isn’t fulfilling it’s mission in a meaningful way.
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we should urge our government officials to extend this program.
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My wife’s sister works for Meals on Wheels. She makes $150,000 a year. That is way too much money for doing the work she does.
“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6
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Trump’s administration of billionaires will have a distinct lack of empathy for those in need. We’re entering a dark time.
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Great blog!
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